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	<title>What Do You Want? &#187; Real Life</title>
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	<description>Taking comfort in the Unfairness of the Universe</description>
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		<title>Fifth anniversary</title>
		<link>http://zhadum.org.uk/2009/10/08/fifth-anniversary/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 08 Oct 2009 12:26:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matthias Scheler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Five years ago I became the luckiest man on the planet when Silke married me on the castle Sababurg in Germany. It was a wonderful time ever since and I&#8217;m looking forward to more years with my lovely wife. We will celebrate our anniversary in proper style at Restaurant 22 this evening.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Five years ago I became the luckiest man on the planet when Silke married me on the castle <a title="Sababurg" href="http://www.sababurg.de/">Sababurg</a> in Germany.</p>
<p align="center"><a href="/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/wedding-large.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-909" title="Silke's and my wedding" src="http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2009/10/wedding.jpg" border="0" alt="Silke's and my wedding" width="320" height="228" /></a></p>
<p>It was a wonderful time ever since and I&#8217;m looking forward to more years with my lovely wife. We will celebrate our anniversary in proper style at <a title="Restauran 22" href="/2009/02/15/restaurant-22/">Restaurant 22</a> this evening.</p>
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		<title>A spot of Snow</title>
		<link>http://zhadum.org.uk/2009/02/02/a-spot-of-snow/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Feb 2009 21:45:28 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matthias Scheler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Today for the first time since Silke and I moved to the south east of England we had snow worth mentioning. It started to snow yesterday evening and didn&#8217;t stop before noon. As such heavy snowfall is unusual for this part of the country it caused a massive chaos. The treacherous conditions on the roads [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Today for the first time since Silke and I moved to the south east of England we had snow worth mentioning. It started to snow yesterday evening and didn&#8217;t stop before noon. As such heavy snowfall is unusual for this part of the country it caused a massive chaos. The treacherous conditions on the roads resulted in several accidents, trains had to be cancelled and both the buses and the tube in London weren&#8217;t operating. The airports in the area had to either cancel a lot of flights or even close down.</p>
<p>By contrast Silke and I had a really nice day. As we are both fortunate enough to be able to work from home we could avoid the traffic chaos. Silke took a few photos in the morning and we had a snowball fight afterwards. <img src='http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/garden-full.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-583 aligncenter" title="Snowy Garden" src="http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/garden.jpg" border="0" alt="Snowy Garden" width="320" height="240" /></a></p>
<p>During our lunch break we even build a small snowman.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><a href="/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/snowman-full.jpg"><img border="0" class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-587" title="Our Little Snowman" src="http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/snowman.jpg" alt="Our Little Snowman" width="240" height="320" /></a></p>
<p>In the afternoon it got a bit warmer and the snow began to melt. I guess that most of it will be gone by tomorrow.</p>
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		<title>Thank you DHL</title>
		<link>http://zhadum.org.uk/2008/11/27/thank-you-dhl/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Nov 2008 23:58:45 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matthias Scheler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[In the past I was quite pleased with the delivery services offered by DHL. Packages usually arrived quickly and if I wasn&#8217;t home when DHL attempted to deliver a package I could use e-mail to arrange for a delivery to another address on the following day. However things have changed. DHL tried to deliver a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In the past I was quite pleased with the delivery services offered by <a title="DHL United Kingdom" href="http://www.dhl.co.uk/">DHL</a>. Packages usually arrived quickly and if I wasn&#8217;t home when DHL attempted to deliver a package I could use e-mail to arrange for a delivery to another address on the following day.</p>
<p>However things have changed. DHL tried to deliver a package this week when Silke and I were both at work. Dealing with them afterwards turned out to be really frustrating:</p>
<ol>
<li>There was no useful information on the card: no tracking number, no sender address, not even the recipient.</li>
<li>Instead of an e-mail address the card only listed a phone number. When I tried to call the phone number an automatic operator connected me to the local service centre which was already closed.</li>
<li>When I called again on the next morning they still couldn&#8217;t tell me the recipient. As the package originated from another country they weren&#8217;t able to access the details.</li>
<li>They could not arrange for a delivery attempt on the same day which meant I had to wait at least another day.</li>
<li>When they insisted that I need to authorise the delivery to my work address via <a title="Fax" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fax">Fax</a> I finally gave up. I decided to collect the package at the DHL service centre instead.</li>
<li>DHL do of course not have a service centre in Cambridge. I will therefore have to drive to <a title="Bar Hill" href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bar_Hill">Bar Hill</a>.</li>
<li>When Silke and I finally arrived in Bar Hill we found out that the driving directions on the card had led us to the wrong DHL building.</li>
</ol>
<p>It goes without saying that I&#8217;m really happy about all the <em>improvements</em> that DHL made to their customer service.</p>
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		<title>Autumn Colours</title>
		<link>http://zhadum.org.uk/2008/10/29/autumn-colours/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 29 Oct 2008 14:05:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matthias Scheler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last saturday Silke and I visited the Cambridge University Botanic Garden for a relaxing walk. We were overwhelmed by the beauty of all the trees in their autumn colours. As we didn&#8217;t bring a camera Silke went back on Monday during her lunch break and took these amazing photos.]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last saturday Silke and I visited the <a title="Cambridge University Botanic Garden " href="http://www.botanic.cam.ac.uk/">Cambridge University Botanic Garden</a> for a relaxing walk. We were overwhelmed by the beauty of all the trees in their autumn colours. As we didn&#8217;t bring a camera Silke went back on Monday during her lunch break and took these amazing photos.</p>
<p><a href="http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/autumn-colours-2-large.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-342" title="Autumn Colours 2" src="http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/autumn-colours-2.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="320" height="240" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/autumn-colours-3-large.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-343" title="Autumn Colours 3" src="http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/autumn-colours-3.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="320" height="240" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/autumn-colours-4-large.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-345" title="Autumn Colours 4" src="http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/autumn-colours-4.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="320" height="240" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/autumn-colours-5-large.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-347" title="Autumn Colours 5" src="http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/autumn-colours-5.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="320" height="240" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/autumn-colours-6-large.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-348" title="Autumn Colours 6" src="http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/autumn-colours-6.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="320" height="240" /></a></p>
<p><a href="http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/autumn-colours-7-large.jpg"><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-349" title="Autumn Colours 7" src="http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2008/10/autumn-colours-7.jpg" border="0" alt="" width="320" height="240" /></a></p>
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		<title>20 Year High School Reunion</title>
		<link>http://zhadum.org.uk/2008/09/27/20-year-high-school-reunion/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 27 Sep 2008 21:31:55 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matthias Scheler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Two weeks ago my friend Mario and I visited Lippstadt, the town of our school days. The occassion was the 20 year high school reunion of the Ostendorf Gymnasium. I felt a mixture of anticipation and apprehension when we arrived at the Goldener Hahn. But after sighting the first familiar faces I began to relax. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Two weeks ago my friend Mario and I visited <a title="Lippstadt" href="http://www.lippstadt.de/">Lippstadt</a>, the town of our school days. The occassion was the 20 year high school reunion of the <a title="Ostendorf Gymnasium Lippstadt" href="http://www.ostendorf-gymnasium.de/">Ostendorf Gymnasium</a>.</p>
<p>I felt a mixture of anticipation and apprehension when we arrived at the <a title="Goldener Hahn Lippstadt" href="http://www.goldenerhahn-lippstadt.de/">Goldener Hahn</a>. But after sighting the first familiar faces I began to relax. The first pleasant realisation was that I&#8217;m not the only who got older. I actually still have more hair and less grey hair than some of my former schoolmates. And while a lot of them have gained weight I lost one or two kilos in the last 20 years. <img src='http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>Mario and I spent the rest of the evening talking to as many schoolmates as we could. Unfortunately not all the people I would have liked to meet attended the party. But most of the people I didn&#8217;t really need to see again weren&#8217;t there either. The hardest part was to remember everybody&#8217;s name.</p>
<p>During the evening I realized that I knew next to nothing about the girls on my high school. Well, considering that I was a fairly overweight geek with a lot of spots back then I shouldn&#8217;t have been surprised.</p>
<p>Alltogether it was a really nice event. I hope there will be another reunion in a few years.</p>
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		<title>A Rude Awakening</title>
		<link>http://zhadum.org.uk/2008/08/05/a-rude-awakening/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 05 Aug 2008 14:02:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matthias Scheler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last night I woke up at around 4:00 am. After a few moments of disorientation I noticed that my pillow was wet. I soon realized that the sheet, the blanket and my pyjamas were wet, too. I stood up, had a look at the bed and figured out what had happened: a corner weld on [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last night I woke up at around 4:00 am. After a few moments of disorientation I noticed that my pillow was wet. I soon realized that the sheet, the blanket and my pyjamas were wet, too. I stood up, had a look at the bed and figured out what had happened: a corner weld on my side of our water bed had developed a leak. Just the thing you need in the middle of the night. <img src='http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>My wife had woken up in the meantime. She helped me to hang up the wet laundry and patched the leak. As the water bed itself still needed to dry we spent  the rest of the night in the guest room. It took us both a while to go to sleep again. Unsurprisingly we were both dead tired when the alarm went off in the morning.</p>
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		<title>One less bad habit</title>
		<link>http://zhadum.org.uk/2008/03/09/one-less-bad-habit/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 09 Mar 2008 19:54:14 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matthias Scheler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[I have never smoked, don&#8217;t drink coffee and hardly any alcohol. But as most peoble I have my bad habits, and one of them was Diet Coke. Years ago I would only buy two bottles for the weekend. But over time it became worse. I had Diet Coke on a daily basis and that stuff [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I have never smoked, don&#8217;t drink coffee and hardly any alcohol. But as most peoble I have my bad habits, and one of them was Diet Coke. Years ago I would only buy two bottles for the weekend. But over time it became worse. I had Diet Coke on a daily basis and that stuff is just not healthy. It was especially bad if I had access to a large supply of Diet Coke e.g. free soft drinks at work or an evening in a pub. I ended up drinking a great deal too much of it.  And the following night I had often trouble to go to sleep because there was simply too much caffeine in my blood stream.</p>
<p>After reading in a book how unhealthy Diet Coke and especially the sweetener in it is I decided to stop drinking it. My wife had told me about this years ago but I never really believed her. Anyway, I <strong>do</strong> believe her now.</p>
<p>This was over two weeks ago and I haven&#8217;t had any Diet Coke since. I even resisted the temptation of the free soft drinks at work. My next goal is to stop buying chocolate bars and cookies at work.</p>
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		<title>The Hunt for a new Passport</title>
		<link>http://zhadum.org.uk/2008/02/10/the-hunt-for-a-new-passport/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 10 Feb 2008 12:47:46 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matthias Scheler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[My passport expires in a few week. And because I live in the UK I was concerned that it would be very difficult to get a new one. The German Embassy London provides the necessary information on their website. But that is unfortunately the only internet service they offer. I took me several days to [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My passport expires in a few week. And because I live in the UK I was concerned that it would be very difficult to get a new one. The German Embassy London provides <a href="http://www.london.diplo.de/Vertretung/london/en/06/Passport__Reisepass/Passport__Unterbereich.html" title="German Embassy London - Passport information">the necessary information</a> on their <a href="http://www.london.diplo.de/" title="German Embassy London">website</a>. But that is unfortunately the only internet service they offer. I took me several days to make an appointment via phone because the passport section&#8217;s line was always busy. But in the end I was lucky and could arrange an appointment on Friday, the 8th of February when I wanted to visit London along with my wife anyway.</p>
<p>Having all the paperwork and the photos ready two weeks in advance I felt well prepared on Friday  morning. But everything seemed to wrong thenceforward:</p>
<ul>
<li>We spend more than twenty minutes waiting for a bus in Cambridge which should have arrived after 5 minutes.</li>
<li>We finally gave up on the bus and called a cab. But the train to London had already left.</li>
<li>We took the next train which was running on time. But it suddenly stopped for several minutes outside of the King&#8217;s Cross train station for no obvious reason.</li>
<li>When we finally arrived at King&#8217;s Cross we sprinted to the tube station with all our luggage because we didn&#8217;t have time to drop it off at the Hotel.</li>
<li>Running all the way from the destination tube station to the embassy we managed at arrive there at 12:00 o&#8217;clock sharp when the passport section was about to close. But we couldn&#8217;t find the entrance. According to the instructions it was on the back side of the building. But all the doors and gates there were locked.</li>
<li>We finally realized the passport section was in a building on the opposite side of the street. There was no flag or any other clearly visible sign, just a label on the wall. We were lucky and could still get in at 12:05 o&#8217;clock but the security guard complained that we were late.</li>
<li>The trouble didn&#8217;t stop there. A suit jumped the queue at the counter and when it was my turn finally they didn&#8217;t want to accept my passport photos. I had to use a photo booth on site to make new photos according to regulations. And because I was exhausted and stressed out they look really  grim.</li>
</ul>
<p>The good news was that in the end they accepted my application and my new passport should arrive in a few weeks.</p>
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		<title>An unintended Lecture</title>
		<link>http://zhadum.org.uk/2008/01/13/an-unintended-lecture/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 13 Jan 2008 21:20:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matthias Scheler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Never volunteer on a mailing list to give somebody a quick introduction into OpenLDAP! You could end up with twenty people listening to a presentation about LDAP in general which you have to come up with off the top of your head. It happened to me yesterday and fortunately went quite well. I had a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Never volunteer on a mailing list to give somebody a quick introduction into <a href="http://www.openldap.org/" title="OpenLDAP">OpenLDAP</a>! You could end up with twenty people listening to a presentation about <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LDAP" title="LDAP">LDAP</a> in general which you have to come up with off the top of your head.</p>
<p>It happened to me yesterday and fortunately went quite well. I had a bit help from the audience and a lot of people realized soon that they already encountered LDAP as <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Active_Directory" title="Active Directory">Active Directory</a>.</p>
<p>Despite being somewhat unprepared I enjoyed giving that lecture. And I&#8217;m foolish enough to believe that the audience enjoyed it as well. <img src='http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':-)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>The Sound Of Silence</title>
		<link>http://zhadum.org.uk/2008/01/09/the-sound-of-silence/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 09 Jan 2008 11:49:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Matthias Scheler</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[For the last twelve days we had visitors from Germany: two good friends from University and their lovely daughters. They left very early this morning to catch their ferry home in Harwich. Now that they are gone the house feels very empty. And the sound of the boiler starting up is the only thing which [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For the last twelve days we had visitors from Germany: two good friends from University and their lovely daughters. They left very early this morning to catch their ferry home in <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Harwich" title="Harwich">Harwich</a>.</p>
<p>Now that they are gone the house feels very empty. And the sound of the boiler starting up is the only thing which interrupts the oppressive silence. <img src='http://zhadum.org.uk/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_sad.gif' alt=':-(' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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